How I made 10k this year as a freelancer (and a stay at home mom)

Guys, I made ten thousand dollars as a freelance writer, running coach, and (primarily) stay at home mom with limited childcare this year... and I'm going to tell you how.I'm not saying my magic formula is going to work for you. I'm just saying it worked for me. Are you ready?I worked really hard.It would have been so cool if I told you it was all about the Bulletproof coffee I'm addicted to. (I'm actually just starting to get used to it.) Maybe you'd be inspired if I told you I always did my writing from 5 to 7 am before the kids got up and did all my editing between 1 and 2pm while my big girl is at school and  my little one is (supposedly) resting. That's hilarious because my kids have slept until seven one time each. I could have uploaded photos of pages of my bullet journal, but sadly, no productivity or creativity secrets can be found there, either. Mostly it's just tasks I need to complete slotted into any available windows of time and reminders about school pajama days, credit card payments, and dentist appointments.I know my "method" is not cool or sexy or what you wanted to hear but it's the truth. I also know I'm probably not supposed to talk about money and I'm definitely not supposed to publicly announce how much I've earned. And women are never supposed to think (or at least admit) that anything they do is a big deal.But this is a big deal to me. When I was tallying my earnings to pay my quarterly taxes this morning and I saw how much I'd earned on my un-fancy excel spreadsheet I thought "HELL YEAH."Hell yeah because I was it was with no small amount of "who the hell do I think I am?" that I announced to the universe that I wanted to get paid to write five years ago. In 2013 I was an occupational therapist with a blog and a baby and I loved to write but I didn't imagine that after my second kid was born my scrubs would stay in a storage box and that I'd someday be able to say I was a writer and a run coach without feeling like a complete and total fraud.Hell yeah because last year I had one kid in preschool four days a week from 7:55 to 10:40 (yes you read that right; not even a full three hours) and one kid in no school at all. Four days a week, I dropped Sweet Pea off at preschool, then schlepped Lady Bug across town to the only gym where I was pretty sure the childcare wouldn't accidentally send my food-allergic child into anaphylaxis. There, I'd wait ten minutes for childcare to open at 8:30, drop her off, then hide in the cafe with my laptop and a travel mug of coffee until 10:15.Hell yeah because I this year I have one kid in preschool and one kid in all-day kindergarten, and even though most of the other moms complain about the bullshit 7:55-10:40 am schedule (You can't get anything done! By the time you drop them off, you're turning around to pick them up again!), I (usually) don't. You can actually get a lot done in that short window of quiet, child-free time when you focus.Hell yeah because my only regular childcare beside the precious hours when kindergarten and preschool overlap is a sitter who comes three hours a week. I struggle with whether I can really afford this, whether I should really afford this, whether a good writer/coach/mom/human being would forgo this luxury in favor of staying up late to work or declaring Thursdays Netflix Day. Dan is adamant that I deserve a sitter one afternoon a week. He says you have to spend money to make money and we both know that I'm a total nightmare when I get less than eight hours of sleep.Hell yeah because I know I am so lucky to have Dan as my partner. He has always supported my writing and he continues to be my champion. Every time he shares my work on Facebook (even if it is because I expressly ask him to), every time he takes the kids to the gym or the library or to the park on a Saturday so I can be alone with my computer is him saying "I love you and I believe in you" and I am so very grateful for that. I don't know if I would have been brave enough to dare call myself a writer without his support.Hell yeah because I've read a million and one blog posts and heard dozens of podcasts on how to be successful, how to get published, how to make money, how to do a lot with a little, and I'm sure a lot of that works for a lot of people but the only thing I've done that works for me is to just keep working, even if it's at a snail's pace. What has worked for me is forcing myself to do things that are scary and then keep doing them until they are not scary, and then find a new scary thing to try.This is an incomplete list of what has worked for me: Start a blog, start a writing group, co-produce the Listen To Your Mother Show, start a book, submit my work, attend a blogging conference, keep submitting my work, quit writing a book, submit my work to new outlets, start another book, get rejected, create a writing retreat, quit writing another book, be an author, ask stores to carry my book, speak in public, keep submitting my work, ask my editor if there's room for me to write on a weekly basis, sign up for a writing retreat, sign up for a writing class, create another writing group, keep submitting, get rejected, keep submitting.I'm not saying you should start a blog, start your own writing group, co-produce a show of your own, or do anything I did. Maybe you should look at my list and do the opposite of everything I've done. I don't know what will work for you. I just know what's working for me. It's not magic and it hasn't been quick and it hasn't been easy but it's been slow, steady, and extremely gratifying.